Review: The Sociopath Next Door
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She lives! And moreover, she reads! I’m sure that’s the sentiment most of you are feeling right about now. As I said earlier, several life factors have conspired against me to make it hard to read, much less update lately.
But at least I feel bad about abandoning my readers, few though they may be. If I were one of the 4% of people without a conscience–the kind described in today’s review–I wouldn’t give a flip at all.

One of these pairs of eyes would do horrible things to you and never regret it.
Genre: nonfiction, psychology
Plot: Psychologist Martha Stout begins her chilling book by inviting readers to reflect on what it would be like to have no conscience. To be totally and completely incapable of guilt, remorse, and any personal connection to another human being. This is the world of the sociopath, who contrary to our naive assumptions, is not confined to the locked-up criminals of the world. As many as 4% of the population in the West is sociopathic, and the numbers in non-Western classes are climbing. Dr. Stout gives a broad, multi-faceted inquiry into the neruological, biological, psychological, and even spiritual ramifications of sociopathy, as well as the curious phenomenon the rest of us possess.
Structure: Each of the 12 chapters seems to cover a different aspect of sociopathy. The first and second chapters are mostly an introduction to the discussion surrounding sociopathy today, including a discussion on the history of conscience theory illustrated by some amalgamated examples. Chapters 4 and 5 provide another example of sociopathy in real life which illustrates how most sociopaths are living among us undetected (with even more stories of this in chapters 6 and 7), though chapter 8 remedies this by giving a practical list of how-to recognize and deal with “the remorseless.” Chapter 9 focuses on the scientific aspects of sociopathy, and the opposite side of the coin, conscience: the hows and whys of these brain patterns are surveyed here. Chapter 10 takes an interesting detour from the rest of the book and illustrates how, even though some people may think it’s freeing to live without conscience, it’s actually quite miserable, as chapter 11 demonstrates with yet another example. Finally, chapter 12 tries to take a pan-religious survey on conscience and ends with a quasi-unitarian “we’re all human” call for warm fuzzies.
Execution: Martha Stout is one of those really talented scientists who is great at communicating to lay men, and this ability to deconstruct lofty scientific principles and theories down to a level understandable by most adults without being condescending is what makes her book so readable and interesting. I’m sure there are several journal articles out there about aspects spoken of in this book, but how many would actually engage the non-professional?
That being said, the book was a little sloppy though not in a way that was a hindrance. Rather, it’s more of an after-the-fact observation that the book could have been a little tighter and neater in its organization. The more serious offense to me was the universalist buffet of religiousity that comprised the final chapter. Although I applaud Stout for bringing this oft-neglected aspect into her scientific work, I disapproved heartily of how she lumped–rather simplistically and unfairly to all religions involved–everyone’s “golden rule” saying together. In fact, Jesus’ utterance “do unto others as you would have them do unto you” radically differs from similar but negated phrases like “do not do to others what you do not want them to do to you” because Jesus is arguing for a positive, active duty of doing good rather than passively avoiding harming others.
I did enjoy the read; it was interesting, stimulating, and quite frankly scary. The last chapter was a bit of a sour note, but overall it was an enjoyable experience.
Theme: pscyhology
Read this if you’re like me (when I first picked it up) and thought “sociopath? Is that like a psychopath?”
4 out of 5 stars
Other works:
The Myth of Sanity
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The audiobook was fantastic. It was every bit as moving and profound as I expected. At times I thought my heart would burst from the tragedy, and yet I was uplifted by Ram Mohammed’s constant kindness, altruism, and hopeful outlook. The drama of the show was really well done as well, and it’s one of the only books I have ever read which I can say that the structure was absolutely perfect. The characters, the setting, the way the author wove in Indian culture – it was pretty darn perfect.